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Purity rings like these can be a statement for your to set your own boundaries.

When some of us lovelies think of purity rings, we think of images like faith-based ceremonies and earnest teenage pledges, etc, that often come to mind. However, even for those who aren’t religious, there are several amazing reasons for teens to consider getting these symbolic jewelry pieces of art.

Purity rings serve as both a personal and public statement of commitment to abstaining from sexual relations until marriage, integrating elements of faith, culture, and personal choice.

Having a physical reminder of their commitment and choices can help teens stay secure, and honestly, that’s a pretty lovely way to resist the constant annoying and hurting talk of “everyone’s doing it” arguments from their friends.

A purity ring can be as stylish as any piece of jewelry, with designs ranging from delicate hoops to bold individuality, while maintaining their commitments to themselves, their families, etc…. Basically, it’s possible to make a statement while saying “NO!” and look phenomenal in your own way.

This introspection during adolescence is invaluable and can lay the groundwork for a lifetime of informed decision-making. Embrace the ring, embrace the conversation, especially with friends, it can be a great convo starter when there’s absolutely nothing to talk about, and who knows- maybe we’ll start a movement in our school for a little extra sparkle and introspection in everyone’s lives!

A purity ring is not just a ring for the “goody two shoes;” it can represent promises to yourself and help you with your self-image and understanding, like focusing on education, career goals, or healthy relationships. Embracing a ring that signifies personal growth, self-love, and a commitment to one’s values can be incredibly empowering, especially at a young age.

We can also use these amazing rings as an identity factor, as we teens are figuring out who we are and many of us are struggling, not all though. A purity ring can become a part of our identity and self-expression. I also feel like purity rings would help with confidence and stop the peer pressure of trying to keep count of those activities with many people, and the sexist labels people place on one another mostly women. If a man were to be promiscuous, he would be considered popular in most cases, but if a woman were to be, she’d be called a hurtful slur.

It also helps decision-making in relationships. It’s a way for you and your partner to consider and help with respecting boundaries and understanding each other. When you’re confused about something in the relationship, the presence of the purity ring can remind both you and your partner about what you are or are not ready for.

So, the purity ring is really about empowerment and self-determination. It’s like sporting a secret handshake with yourself, declaring, “I’m in control of my choices.” When you wear your ring, it’s a reminder that you set the rules, not society, not your friends, and not that person who thinks they’re your special gift.

I discovered purity rings through Tik Tok influencers and a few friends. I am personally Christian, so this seemed like a new way to regain my purity after I fell short to Christ . At sixteen, I proudly wear my purity ring, an unassuming piece of jewelry that seems to carry the weight of the world’s expectations. The world is a swirl of change and challenges, and the occasional teenage drama could rival any soap opera. Since I’m religious, my purity ring is a shiny little token that declares my allegiance to that ever-exclusive Kingdom of waiting.

This was my journey, but the value of the ring does not have to be religious, and anyone could use it in their own way to make it through that teenage soap opera. It’s an armor against the relentless tide of relationship goals flooding our screens. With the pressure to “just be casual,” it can feel like every battle is a battle with our self-worth. But the purity ring is a badge of honor that shouts “I’m worth something deeper than causal high school dating.”

It takes guts, commitment, and an excellent sense of humor (yes, I know what people say), but I wouldn’t trade it for the world. Because at the end of the day, I know that my worth isn’t defined by the briefest of flings or the latest fall apart/player trends.

If you are religious and you know about purity, you know that purity is a very important thing for us Christians. We know that our faith is important and we put it before anything. We can find our identity in Christ, but for those who are not religious, you can still wear it proudly and let the world know you’ve got your own unique spin on what your purity ring can do for you.